Author name: DahliaDW

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Banish Envy

You:  I’m engaged to get married!!! (runs around sprinkling white and pearl and pink glitter, pleased and happy) Friend:  That’s wonderful!  I’m happy for you, but I am jealous. You:  (some joy gone)   Envy is the religion of the mediocre. It comforts them, it soothes their worries, and finally it rots their souls, allowing them to justify their meanness and their greed until they believe these to be virtues. —Carlos Ruiz Zafón, The Angel’s Game   Folks, this happens.  We all have someone in our past, present or future to whom you cannot impart good news without them poking a hole in your glittery balloon.  It is human nature to want to share good news, but unfortunately, it is also human nature to be envious of another.  I call this “keeping up with the Joneses” syndrome.  “Why do they XYZ and I don’t?” We all had it at one time… Continued

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Beat the Critics – Seek Inner Peace

The public eye can be a very scary place.  Just ask actors, musicians, singers and authors, just to name a few. Criticisms run rampant.  You’re too fat, too tall, too boring, too skinny, too nasty, too quirky, too eccentric , too inaccessible.  Yes, yes, poor us, right? But remember that even as a person who is not in the public eye, you are still subject to critique, from bosses, family, friends and media.  Every commercial is designed to sell something, and in order to get you to purchase the product, they first have to let you know that you have a problem that only their product can solve.  It’s subtle, but it’s there.  Too fat?  Get a weight loss pill.  Eyelashes too short?  Get this mascara.  Pores too large?  Buy this facial toner.  Too wrinkly?  Buy this makeup, plus this cream, plus this treatment masque.  Don’t you feel and look

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Five More Halloween Movie Favorites – Seventies Version

I’m not going to even start this post by saying I love movies.  Readers, you already know this.  But did you know just how MUCH?  This……..much!  Here are some of my seventies horror movies that scared the mess out of me as a child, but that I probably wouldn’t blink at now.  Mind you, I’m not going to take that risk if I’m alone at night….a woman’s got to know her limitations. Let’s take a look, shall we? Note:  Many of these movies, you can’t get anymore, unless you happen to run upon a VHS copy or obtain them by unscrupulous means.  But, if you do run upon them at a reasonable price, they are worth looking at, even if it is just to see how well-made television movies were in the 1970s – 1980s.  I dare say that they were made better than some of the theatrical releases today.

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Mulled Apple Cider – Hard Version

You can always count on me to be the liquor to your parties.  That was me with the Long Island Iced Tea  and the Vampire Sangria.  So, I’m back with hard mulled cider.  Plain cider is nice, but adding a kick is even nicer.  Prepare to enjoy. Ingredients 2 quarts apple cider Dried apple slices Thinly sliced orange 1/2 cup dark brown sugar 1/2 tsp. cinnamon 1/8 tsp nutmeg (pinch) 1 cup dark rum cinnamon sticks for stirrin’ In a large pot, combine all ingredients except the rum and bring to a simmer over low heat.  Allow mixture to remain for about ten minutes. Remove from the heat, add the rum. Serve in mugs with a cinnamon stick and enjoy. If you want to make ahead, put the mixture in a slow-cooker on “keep warm” and add the rum just before serving.

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Interview with Bellamy Black – Goal! A Love Story

Please join me in welcoming  Bellamy Black, author of Goal!  A Love Story, published with Entranced Publishing.  Bellamy was kind enough to take the time and answer a few questions for us: 1. What books have most influenced your life most? Two spring immediately to mind Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte and Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler. On the surface they don’t seem to have much in common, one is about Victorian era governess and the other about is about a young Black-American girl in a dystopian future, but they both featured women who believed in themselves and knew themselves and wouldn’t betray themselves and I really liked that. Plus, they both went on amazing journeys in their lives. 2. Do you see writing as a career or as merely a hobby? How about a vocation? Writing has always definitely been more than a hobby for me. Even

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